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  • Are you a successful professional or business woman but feel unhappy?
  • Do you feel you desire more from life than what you are getting?
  • Do you sometimes struggle with feelings of insecurity?
  • Do you struggle sometimes with uncontrollable anger and resentment?
  • Are you tired of trying to fix your indulgences and/or addictions?
  • Do you have difficulties with forgiveness from the heart?

When I was at the top of my career travelling all over the world, leading international networks and organizations, I suffered from depression for five good years and I didn’t even know it! I went through year after year, of not experiencing real happiness and I just thought I was just unhappy! When I finally got help and got well, it was in a group coaching program of women from different cultures and it was a healing experience of a lifetime with so much added value! So I decided to dedicate my life to helping other women and to create the same environment of different cultures.

Now that’s what I love doing most. Helping women find their happiness again while empowering, enriching, adding value to each other’s lives in a multicultural setting of groups called SHEBUNTU Circle. I will coach you to coach yourself out of your undesired situation to where you want to be. My personal and professional experience and the use of powerful practical tools that cut straight to the chase on what you need to do to leave behind stress, sadness, resentment, anger and depression will bring you to a mentally and emotionally healthy place you desire to be. I believe experiencing a deep meaningful balanced life is the real key to happiness and successful life

If you are ready to get out of your comfort zone and If you are coachable, then let’s make it happen! Join the SHEBUNTU circle!

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Enrol Now for SHEBUNTU Circle 2021

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Invisible no More

Are you struggling with issues of anger, stress, resentment and depression? Do you feel unheard and powerless, not sure you will reach your highest aspirations? Are you worried about the future of your children?

In her book INVISIBLE NO MORE, Author Dorothy Attema will challenge you to take courage and look at these issues within yourself, your life and your relationships. Through these pages, you will begin to explore how subconsciously, we carry the pain of our parents which results in us manifesting aggression and stress into our daily lives. As well, we will most likely pass the burden on to our children.

INVISIBLE NO MORE will give you a clear roadmap to get rid of these character defects and to break free from these generational cycles. Through making transformative choices, you will discover how to take back control for inner healing and change. If you want to start living a successful, balanced life, then this must be a must read.


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What my clients say

“Ms. Dorothy Attema is an amazing life coach. She is very empathic and professional. My sessions with her helped me truly move forward with life. She has a versatile toolbox that can help anyone gain clarity, be intentional about making great change, and create next steps while having a supportive ear by your side.”

Nikky A.

Language Development Consultant, Belgium

“Dorothy is an amazing coach. The way she conducts her coaching is very impactful and definitely guarantees change and growth if put in practice. I have also had the pleasure of her services in conducting workshops on women empowerment and identifying one’s triggers in mental health Awareness. She makes a genuine and powerful connection with her audience”.

Caroline Pouw

Founder Fashion High Tea EU/ Mindbeautysphere

"Dorothy is very professional in her approach and from the offset, I felt at ease. Her approach, empathy, supportive ear helped me in assessing my situation and finding concrete ways to move forward. My sessions with her made a difference in my journey."

Theresia G, Brussels, Belgium.

"How can I describe Dorothy, She is awesome, she helps me cut through the crap and get to the real issue effortlessly. It does matter whether it is my high octane work situations or my personal issues, the experience is the same. She helps you see things clearly and always recognize the power within. I have developed confidence for huge decisions and my life has been changed by our sessions."

Nancy O.

Senior Legal Counsel